Motivation

I’m struggling at the moment. Struggling with life, the weather and not being able to get out and do my daily walks or even use taking photos as an excuse to get outside. And when I’m not getting out for my walk, I get grumpy. I get very grumpy. I don’t do well closed in for days at a time or, in this case, because the damn weather is so damn cold, weeks at a time.

It’s really getting to me and we’re only coming up to the end of January. I’ve got the whole month of February to get through. And even with scheduled appointments I have to go to: the doctor, the nurse for blood tests, the dentist for my check up, and any runs out for groceries etc., it’s not the same. Not the same as wandering here and there, in my neighbourhood, taking photos of things that interest me. Or even going further afield in the city, and wandering around on of the many parks.

I want to be out. And I want to be out like, now!

Am I going stir crazy? You bet I am. But going out, in this weather, entails wearing at least 4 layers of clothing. Which, let me tell you, is not conducive to going for a walk feeling like the Stay Puff Man from Ghostbusters.

Throw in the fact any exposed skin at MINUS 27+ will get frostbite pretty quickly and that, dear reader, is no fun.

So what’s a girl to do?

Stare out the window a while longer and pray to Mother Nature to pull her finger out of her, well, you know where, and give us a break. Pretty please with cream on top.

Thanks,
Love Alex

OED

LOL & OMG Toll the death-knell of the English Language.

English is one of those languages that begs, borrows and downright steals from other languages to the point of stalking them down dark alleys. Where, before hitting them over the head with a dangling participle, rifles through a language’s pockets in search of any word it thinks it can get away with. It doesn’t care whether it’s bright, shiny, and new, or if it is dog-eared and long since forgotten. The only criteria is, can I use it?

You have to remember, languages live by adapting or die by stagnation. English (and yes, we’ll include American, Canadian, and Australian English here too) knows this and isn’t above grand theft and petty larceny in the verbiage world at large.

So, to any and all of you out there bemoaning the death-knell of the English language when reading announcements that the OED (Oxford English Dictionary) is once again adding new and controversial words to its pages. Ask yourselves, do we speak the same language of Shakespeare, or even the Victorians? Could you imagine a dapper-dressed Victorian saying, “I better Google that, or check that fact on Bing.” Eh, of course not. Nor do we, in our time, go around asking, “doth thine eyes, of palest emerald, beseech the heavens above …” 

Hell, no!

We speak and write a vibrant, living, growing, transforming language that is constantly in flux and adapting to the changing needs of those using it. 

And to that, I say, hallelujah!

A Life Well Read

I learnt to read at a very early age sat on the knee of my dad as he read his newspaper of an evening. He would read different sections out loud to me and I would mimic him, till, at one point, it was me who was reading the words back to him. I skipped the Janet & John books of my era, and went straight into books for older kids thanks to my father’s patience.

It was my dad who took me on my first outing to the library. A Saturday morning ritual not only to give my mother a moment’s peace and quiet to go shopping by herself. But to keep us kids all out of trouble reading books. We would spend at least two or more hours in the library, which was fine by me, as I got to either sit in a corner and read a whole stack of picture books, or was read to by my dad.

Being the youngest at this point was an advantage. And so, by the time I got to school, I was reading well above my weight, as they say. And more. Thanks to my mother’s diligent prep, also well versed in my letters. I remember fondly sitting at the kitchen table slowly writing out her shopping list for her in pencil, as she dictated what we were going out to buy that day. I felt triumphant at not only being asked to do this responsibility, but at learning to write legibly and clearly. And even today, in a world were we hardly write anything anymore, I’m still proud of my handwriting.

These days I can’t look at a newspaper without thinking of my dad, or smile when I write out a shopping list, remembering those times sitting with my mother. It’s warming to have those memories and know I have a lot to be thankful for.

𖡼.𖤣𖥧𖡼.𖤣𖥧

Top Ten Tuesday: Goals for 2026

This week’s Top Ten Tuesday from Jana over at, That Artsy Reader Girl, is what are our Goals for 2026, bookish or otherwise. Which sounds like an open ended invite to wax lyrically about books in general or my New Year’s intentions (I say intentions as goals are a hard thing to live up to, intentions? Well, we all have good intentions, right?)

So, following Jana’s lead, here are 5 bookish goals and 5 personal goals.

BOOKISH GOALS
  1. Read more books (that’s a given).
  2. Read at least 12 books this year.
  3. Write more book reviews.
  4. Read more books from my TBR pile.
  5. Prioritise my most anticipated books.
PERSONAL GOALS
  1. Eat more healthy foods.
  2. Exercise more (by going out to take more photos)
  3. Do daily morning pages in my journal.
  4. Do not force myself to do something I don’t want to do.
  5. Take more ‘Me’ time to do fun things.

And you, what landed on your lists today, anything special?